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Spreading the Happy

[ 95 ] 01/18/2010 |

So much tragedy has been happening in the world lately and if you are anything like me, you have probably sat and watched the Haiti coverage with tears streaming down your face while you call your husband and beg him to let you adopt a Haitian child. It’s so easy to fall so quickly into THE FUNK.

Once THE FUNK hits, NEGATIVITY emerges. From there, it only gets worse.

This week, ladies and gentlemenman, I want to focus on the POSITIVE things in your life. Think happy thoughts. Find ways to smile. MAKE OTHER PEOPLE SMILE. Really, how many times have you felt completely alone or down-and-out, only to have someone, maybe even a complete stranger, say something to you that totally turns your day around??

A few weeks ago, I was completely wasting hours of my life on Facebook and in a shitty mood, only to have the little chat box-thingie pop up with a message from an old high school classmate (who I haven’t really spoken to in a decade) telling me to have a beautiful day. That is all it took to put a smile on my face and make my shoulders a little lighter.

What makes you happy? I’ll share a few of my “happies” with you…

Sunshine. Sunshine gives me an instant mood boost. I cherish the sun.

Giggling. There is just something about hearing my babies giggle.

Hearing from friends. I am not much of a phone person, but getting an email or text from friends brightens my day and nothing beats having a face-to-face chat with an old friend.

Mountains and beaches.

Photoventures. Taking my camera out on an adventure. LOVE.

Stickles. A tickle + back rub = stickle. My husband is THE BEST stickler ever.

I guess that was more than a few! What do you say? Are you going to think happy thoughts? Put a smile on someone’s face? Let’s SPREAD THE HAPPY! I’ll start…

Audrey - I think you are a beautiful person, both on the outside and most definitely on the inside. I hope you have a wonderful, fabulous day today. :)

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About Lissa: Melissa is the Co-Founder of Shrinking Kitchen and the Sisterhood of the Shrinking Jeans She has been married for a dozen years and is mother to four children (15,12, 8 and 8), with more soon coming her way through the foster care system. Melissa has a love/hate relationship with food (okay, mostly candy) and cooking. This isn't improved by the fact that her husband, the true family chef, works in another city half the year, leaving Melissa to figure out how to feed her growing family something other than Pop-Tarts. Melissa loves her camera, enjoys traveling, kickboxing, creating beautiful things she finds on Pinterest, and planning her dream home that will be built… someday. melissa@shrinkingjeans.net :: @lissajoy :: whereverimaywander.com :: pinning here View author profile.

  • kay6672

    Right back at you, Ann! You know, living so far from *home* and having very few people locally that I would call *friends*, I really value the friendships I have made here!

  • http://www.babytealeaves.blogspot.com Christie O.

    Well this is just about the happiest post I've ever seen! And I'm in LOVE with all the wonderful happy spreaders on here!!! I just had to come back and read all the love, you guys all rock SO.MUCH. And if anyone is here for the first time and you're not sure if you should join us in your endeavors, just read the comments from these wonderful beautiful women on here! Things that make me happy:
    -getting my wetsuit and feeling all official for open water swims in the freakin cold
    -being scared about embarking on a new endeavor
    -my little babies sitting outside of the gorilla exhibit having more fun with the ducks than the gorillas
    -singing my head off in the car with my kids in the back
    -getting checked out while driving my minivan (LOL)
    -my husband and all of his running hotness Vavavoom! (he's training for a marathon)
    -my girlfriends, in real life and virtually. there is just nothing like girlfriends.

    And now to spread my happy: APRIL I JUST LOVE YOU, bloggy twin. And Karena, you're just about the sweetest thing on the internet! You inspire me!

  • babyboy3

    Lissa- I have had the same thought about adopting a child from Haiti. Great minds think alike. I have three boys already then I could have a girl plus help a child. I am sure it is a long process and more so because of the earthquake.

  • Nancy

    Oh Christy, you are the sweetest person ever. It has been a rough couple of weeks, but I think I'm getting back on track and this certainly made my day. Thank you so much! Love you hooker!!

  • Nancy

    Love ya back Lissa! Thank you so much.

  • Nancy

    Lisa, you are the best. Thank you so much for all the love and support.

  • babyboy3

    That is why you let the pros do it. Even highlights are fun and sometimes it is a nice pick me up.

  • DALewis

    Awww, Lissa. Thank you SO MUCH. This put a smile on my face. :)

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    You may be new, but you are just a part of this as we are! Have a wonderful week, Stephanie!

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    Mwah. Love you!

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    Speaking of hair-dyeing, I need to get back to my blonde self.

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    Thank you! It is from the Gulf Coast of Florida – the awesome family vacation we took in '07!

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    Love happy dancing!

    We love you, Ann! You rock!

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    I love that you always make me giggle like I'm 5-years-old again. ;p xoxo

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    I'm sure it is a long process…. but, OH, their eyes…. I just start crying every time I see one of the children hurting on TV.

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    Smooches, hooker, smooches. ;)

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    I love working out AGAINST my hubby too. Especially at racquetball. ;p

    We are so happy you are here!

  • BrookeF

    okay before i go through the comments – i wanna share how i spred the happy this weekend (and i didn't even know i was supposed to be)

    i chat with people during races. its just what i do. i thank the police officers at the intersections who keep us safe. i sometimes interact with the sidewalk encouragers…but during my 5K this weekend i kept my mouth shut when i wanted to say something.

    this lady run/walking ahead of me had these gorgeous calves. i thought about saying something to her, but resisted. how would she take it? so i kept my mouth shut. then later during the awards ceremony – i noticed she was sitting directly in front of me. so i seized the moment.

    “this might sound a little weird, but you were in front of me during the race and i couldn't help but notice you have incredible calves. have you been running a while?”

    i totally made her day. she told me how she had always hated them and had asked her doctor how to make them smaller. how they were genetic…i hate just complimented a body part that she hated. :) and you could tell it made her feel great.

  • BrookeF

    freakin gorgeous isn't she. makes me sick. in a totally jealous wish i was that hot kinda way.

  • BrookeF

    christy you are great because you do make people smile – you always know just what to say to be an encouragement.

    ps – i don't take encouragement well – i wanted to kick my husband in the balls whilst he was encouraging me yesterday. you totally know how to do it to not enduce the ball kicking urges. :)

  • BrookeF

    *hugs* nancy you are an incredible woman :) i'm so glad we have you around (totally selfish on my part)

  • BrookeF

    karena is incredible – i can't wait for her to prove to herself and her hubby that she can totally do it!! :)

    heather you aren't too shabby either *hugs*

  • BrookeF

    go bucks!!

    and they are both incredibly amazing women. :) the bitch of it is that the are as beautiful as they are strong.

  • BrookeF

    isn't ann incredible? when i grow up i wanna be just like her!

  • BrookeF

    i haven't had the pleasure of chatting with amanda i don't believe. but lisa you're incredible, and if you say that she's wonderful then i'm sure she is!!

    and april kicks serious ass. the end.

  • BrookeF

    the addiction is mutual! :)

    there is nothing like getting in a hot bath with a good book and just lingering. :)

  • BrookeF

    can i cut in? i wanna happy dance too!!

  • BrookeF

    you are incredible. one day i will be like you. maybe minus the kids but with all your motivation and spunk.

  • http://christy.shrinkingjeans.net Christy_TheSistherhood

    You are so amazing! Seriously! Sometimes it really doesn't take much to make someone's day, and you seem to have a real knack for it, hooker!

    You totally made my day :)

  • http://christy.shrinkingjeans.net Christy_TheSistherhood

    I so glad I don't have balls. Seriously :)

  • http://www.littleladybugthatcould.blogspot.com ladybugs714

    I agree…April is amazing. She continues to learn more about herself…and that is one of the hardest things along the journey! And she likes BEER and COLLEGE FOOTBALL…and WIENER DOGS! TRIPLE SCORE! Hugs to you sweetie!

    Christie-you Triathalon completing, Florida lovin, adorable baby boy momma bakin' premie supportin woman-you are wonderful and I love how upbeat you are. I hope you realize how uplifting you can be! mwah!

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    You are totally hot and you should know it!!! *mwah*

  • http://www.whooosthatgirl.com Lissa_ShrinkingJeans

    I love that you made her day!!! You are such a ray of sunshine!

  • SJs_April

    Aww, thanks!! Love you, hooker!

  • SJs_April

    Now you're just trying to make me blush. ;o)

  • SJs_April

    You rock, Ann!!

  • SJs_April

    I love you too, bloggy twin!!

  • SJs_April

    I mean, beer, college football? What's not to love?! Thanks, friend!!

  • SJs_April

    I love this so much. Every single one of YOU makes me happy and smile and laugh. Never forget how much you touch my life every single day.

    And I love kicking you east coasters asses during our last chance tworkouts!

  • SJs_April

    Aww, thanks!! Love you, hooker!

  • SJs_April

    Now you're just trying to make me blush. ;o)

  • SJs_April

    You rock, Ann!!

  • SJs_April

    I love you too, bloggy twin!!

  • SJs_April

    I mean, beer, college football? What's not to love?! Thanks, friend!!

  • SJs_April

    I love this so much. Every single one of YOU makes me happy and smile and laugh. Never forget how much you touch my life every single day.

    And I love kicking you east coasters asses during our last chance tworkouts!