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Thursday Three

[ 9 ] 07/22/2010 |

Hello? Anyone there? It’s me, Crooked Eyebrow. I hope you remember me, seeing how it has been so very long since I posted here.  I’m here to run down Thursday Three with all you fine gorgeous people.  Have I told you just how wonderful you are? Not lately you say? Well you are.

You know this summer has been a difficult one for me emotionally. You know what that means? I ate. I got so busy during this past challenge at home and work, that I had to give up time for my own personal goals. Do you know where that put me? Depressed, sad and about 5 pounds heavier. I was running short on time almost everyday and ate out, skipped weigh ins, didn’t get sleep, drank pop. At this point I am ending July in a way I did not want to, out of steam and emotionally worn.

This is the point where I shake myself, slap my self out of it and get back in the game so I can wear some skinny jeans. Ya know what I mean? Since I have been an emotional, stressed, hot mess as of lately, I figured I needed to think of some ways how I could  de-stress (is there such a thing), that would leave me  feeling better, (and hopefully boosting my self confidence back up to where it *should* be).

Long story short:

3 things to get back on emotional track for success, because after all, summer isn’t over.  No throwing in that beach towel just yet!

1) “Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is that chubby girl staring back at me?”

I am my biggest critic but yet I am never, ever my biggest supporter. Everyday when I look at myself I find flaws, things I dislike about my face, or my thighs or my bingo arms. I never remember to pick out the great qualities that are staring right back at me. We talk so much about encouraging each other, now we need to keep encouraging and supporting ourselves.  When I work harder at remembering to me good to myself, good things usually follow…

2)Write it out. I made excuses not to write or blog so much this summer. No time, dishes needed to be done, babies to feed… you know. We all have lists of excuses for things that didn’t get done. You know what? I don’t have very many people out side of social media outlets to talk to, so writing was my way of expressing my emotions. I stopped and well, things kinda built up and cluttered my views. By not taking the time out to express myself I have helped to create an emotional monster knowing full well that I am not successful at making healthy choices when I’m stressed,sad, exhausted,etc…

Plan? write it out, talk it out, work it out and move onward.

3) Physically, my whole entire body is screaming for some help. I can’t tell you the last time I sat alone for at least a half hour without a baby, a computer or a car. My mind is on over drive and it doesn’t shut off.  This is where some people claim that yoga helps. Me? I haven’t accepted yoga goodness into my life yet. Maybe one day.  Others say running or lifting weights help. You know what I love, that just makes me so very happy?  A pedicure. I haven’t had one since I was over due in October. The massage chair, the foot rub, having someone else do something for me. The time away…yeah, just thinking about it makes me happier.

A happy, relaxed body can carry you onto some pretty amazing things…there are so many ways to help yourself get back on track. So. Many. Not everything works for every person. You know what works for you. If you don’t, try something new. Maybe I should do that whole yoga thing after all….

So, go on, share What are some ways you put your self back in the groove and feeling fine?

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  • BrookeF

    welcome back!! :)

  • Nancy

    I've missed you! I'm not going to be much help though. We could be twins. I could have written this post. I have taken a first step though and joined Weight Watchers a few weeks ago. That has put a little spring in my step. So far, I'm doing well with it. I even started a new weight loss blog just for that. All the other stuff, I have to work on. I'm so glad you are back though. Don't be a stranger.

  • Christieo

    Hi CE!! *hugs*
    I know what you mean about getting off track, it's so so easy. And I don't even work! Throw that into the mix and forget about it!
    My three ways that I get back on track:
    1. Purge the house of the nasty food I've accumulated and restock with the goodstuff
    2. Find a new goal and get on a training/workout plan
    3. Literally write the workouts into the family calendar and alert my family.
    That's what I do. Now if there were a 4th, it'd be “follow through…” but that's a whole nother story!! LOL
    Hope you feel better, girlie, sounds like you're on the right track and you're getting there! Start out slow with a nice, girlie, massagey pedi! xooxoxox

  • Saweiand

    I posted my 3 on my neglected blog. Have a great day everyone!!
    http://lsn4life.blogspot.com/2010/07/thursday-t

  • http://www.jeninreallife.com/ jeninRL

    Did you write this post just for me?!?!

  • http://nothingbutchatter.blogspot.com/ kiminia

    Welcome back!!! Great to see a post from you but sorry to hear you are having a bummer summer! :( that's no fun!

    3 things I do are:
    1. escape in a book- a good real life possible book where good & bad things happen to every day people. reminds me that life goes on, people deal & get over, & its not all peaches & cream ANYWHERE.

    2. I scap book. its my time to myself w/my scrappy girls or alone in my room. its a tension release for me. I am not crafty in any way but scapping, looooves me!

    3 get clear away. we go camping every other weekend in teh summer & when we missone OUCH we feel it! its pretty cheap & what you do spend $ on is an investment, tent, sleeping bags, lantern, etc. & not all of it is nec to start out w. but the fire, the nature, the lack of responsibillity YUMMMM is it friday yet???????

    any of those 3 things usually clears my head & gives me the courage & energy to get back to whatever it was I left whether its a project, chore or getting healthy.

    good luck!!!

  • http://xristinejoyce.wordpress.com/ xj

    Welcome back! Great “3 things”! Continue to be kind to yourself!

  • babyboy3

    I like to read a book, scrapbook and a new haircut and or style helps me sometimes too.

  • Nadine

    I wonder why taking care of ourselves is always the first thing to go — especially when we need it the most.

    Getting back on track was actually the topic of our WW meeting yesterday.

    Number one suggestions:

    1. Track EVERYTHING — including writing down how you feel, when you can, and making a point to write one good thing in your tracker either once a day or once a week.

    2. Plan. Plan workouts, plan food, plan PEDICURES! (If you fail to plan, you plan to fail)

    3. My own personal favorite, Control what you can Control. When life is so bad and so busy, one thing you CAN control is what you put in your mouth. Just taking that one thing back, will empower you.

    CE – as for you — don't be afraid to ask for help, and schedule that pedicure!