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A Look Back

[ 7 ] 01/20/2012 |

I think part of setting goals for the new year involves looking back and finding what worked for you and what didn’t in the past year. Sometimes it’s hard. In looking back, I realized that parts of my last year were spent tearing myself down. I had days where I couldn’t find anything about myself that I liked. Let’s just say I had a very blurred picture of myself when I looked in the mirror.

Sometimes here at Shrinking Jeans, we have brainstorming emails with all the writers. One of the ideas recently was to revisit a post that Lisa did in May of 2010. It was back in the days when we had The Thursday Three. The idea of the post was this: When I look in the mirror, I like my _______.

The response to this post was awesome. Lisa asked us to leave a comment or write a blog post about three things that we liked about ourselves when we looked in the mirror. Here is my response to the post. Peoples responses were as different as the people who wrote them. Everyone found things they liked about themselves. It was wonderful.

Life is far too short to dwell on what we think is wrong with us. There are too many things that are wonderful about us. You don’t have to have a perfect smile and model thin thighs. Washboard abs and perky breasts won’t guarantee happiness. Enjoying who you are and what you are is key.

All you have to do is the best that you can for yourself. Try to eat the right things. Try to exercise. Try to drink enough water. Try to get enough sleep. Try to be good to yourself. Don’t always focus on what you think is wrong with you. There are so many good things to love about yourself.

So…let’s do it again. Write a blog post or leave it in the comments. What are the three things that you love about yourself? We can’t wait to hear from you.

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About Nancy: I'm a 57 year old wife, mom and grammy. I've been married for 38 years and have four daughters and three grandchildren. I've been chosen to be the mature voice of the Sisterhood and I couldn't be more excited. My passions are my family, photography and my new found enthusiasm for fitness and weight loss. View author profile.

  • http://frugaltrophywife.com Brooke F

    my hair, my smile, and my booty – how else could a woman be told by her hubby she’s hot in yoga pants? ;)

    now i’m off to see what i put last time.  

    • Lisa

      I like your booty too…..wait a minute, I’ve never met you in real life!!!!

  • Lisa

    I am so glad you re-visited that post, it was one of my favorites to write and you are so RIGHT, we got a huge response- hope everyone jumps on again and can tell us what they love about themselves.  Here are mine:

    *my boo-tay!- with all the running, the squats and the lunges, this mom has a nice butt : )

    *my long, thin arms.  Even without exercising, I have nice arms, but since I now exercise regularly and lift weights, I actually have some definition to those arms.  I love wearing sleeveless tops and showing my guns off- pow pow!

    *my smile- I like to smile a lot and I kind of like to smile.  What’s interesting is that my middle child looks like me and when he flashes me his megawatt smile, I just want to melt.  I can’t say that I have the same megawatt smile, but I like it regardless.

  • Abby

    I love my healthy heart, a smile that always works, and eyes that help me view the world with positivity! Mostly, love my smart brain! Gotta love the “in’s” first!!!

  • http://gilliansactivelife.ca Gillian

    So glad you did this. It’s been a while since I consciously admired what I saw in the mirror.

    I like my proportions (nothing is too small or too big), my strong arms, and my (now) thin legs. My thighs no longer touch when I’m standing normally! That was a huge non-scale victory for me.

  • http://christy.shrinkingjeans.net Christy_TheSistherhood

    I love this, Nancy. And your photograph is so great! Love the symbolism.

    I love my abs. Yes, it’s true they are still covered by a layer of insulation (that’s what I choose to call it!), but I can feel them and I know they are strong.

    I love my arms. I have worked so hard in the last year and a half to tone my body, and my arms are my pride and joy now!

    I love my hair. It’s thick, long, and straight with just enough body. 

  • Rhonda

    I like my eyes, ankles and giving heart.